So, I have done a few posts on “marking the good.” I call these posts “Eyes Open” because too often I run around with my hair on fire and I forget to open my eyes to see the goodness abounding or the small flickering glimmer. So, now and then I luck out and it runs smack into me.
The other day (I would’ve put this up sooner, but again, hair on fire, crazy busy w/ the freight train slow savor of summer) this bit of good literally barreled into me as I stood, per usual, folding clothes. Marta rushed over to me from her room, carrying a book I had handed her just the day before.
This book was one where had she rolled her eyes at me. I had been on a jag of pulling books and old homeschool materials out of the bookshelves, working up a lather on getting the kids to ‘get busy’ during summer. The freaky slow simmering fire drill of many kids loafing around the house, bored or soon to be bored, or not nearly bored enough because they were finding ways to maim themselves was already on my nerves. So I had started a minor rampage through the house. When she protested against that idea, stating firmly that there was no homework for her over the summer I just grinned a big grin and said “Oh yeah!” And when she said her teacher only said “Read” during the summer months I said, “Okay!” and loaded her up with a few books to take. Like, five small ones. If I had dumped all of the books I might have in mind on her small self she would just shut down. I got a glare and a sigh and a big eye roll. Then she disappeared and the books with her.
I forgot all about it, went about my day or two putting out fires, folding laundry, cooking, swapping laundry, cooking, picking up towels, folding laundry and cooking. But, as I was, um, folding laundry and thinking about what to cook for dinner, Marta came darting over to me, holding out a book with a grin and jabbering. I had to slow her down, take the book and examine it and then grin at her. I asked her to tell me about the book. She did. I asked her if she read it.
She said, “Yes! Very good book! Black girl, very sad, last {page of} book very nice, so nice very happy. Black people white people girls very friends. Very good book!” I dropped my laundry, I hugged her tight and told her how cool that was!!!
Now, I don’t want to make too much of this….ok, forget that, this is big. Huge. I know that she read more of the key words and skipped a few others. I know that she looked at the pictures to help decode the story. But, um, I believe that way back when I was a “Miss” that was still called ‘reading!’ That is the whole process: decoding, using cues, figuring out meaning through context, bringing it all together to make sense. And, that, that is exactly what she did. My Marta, read a book and followed a story arc. I don’t think she was or has read this book before. Not by me. (Adrienne? {-her teacher} Let me know if you see this…). So, you could quibble and say, she didn’t read every word and understand every single word. But here’s the deal: Marta read the book, she understood the story. She got excited about it. She totally related to that scared little girl, which is a whole ‘nother post, I know. Still. Let me say that again: She got excited about it. I mean, LIT up. Which lit me up. We knuckle bumped, we high fived, we hugged and grinned stupidly at each other. And I was simply thrilled; as much as she was. Seriously.
So, I am proud of her. I want to go on record and mark that good. It’s SO good. Reading is power. No matter who or what, thats the bottom line. Reading opens up your world. It empowers, excites, helps. It’s huge.
So what’s next? I don’t know. {Yes, I do: more laundry and cooking and reading!} But I do know I promptly got on Amazon and ordered all the copies (used, this is an old series) of the Scholastic First Biographies I could find. I’m excited. I’m marking the good with a big shout out. It’s an” Eyes Open to Read!”
Wow! That is big! Really big! So happy for her.
Me too Jen, thanks! It was a big confidence boost for her too. And really a kick to see progress, very fun.
that is SO wonderful! my annie’s brain damage is right where the reading skills are. She grieves that she can’t read- but remarkably rejoices that others CAN read!!! So we celebrate with any little sign of reading. this is AWESOME!!! I am so happy for Marta!
xo
becca
Thx becca! Every little bit counts!
That is exciting! First book Adam learned to read was Brown Bear Brown Bear in Kindergarten. They basically memorized the book. His teacher said that was the first step to reading memorizing and decoding. She made sure we as parents understood that. She did not want us telling them no you did not read that story because they had it memorized. Happy for Her!
I can’t remember how long Marta has been home, but I GUARANTEE I won’t be doing THAT in Amharic any time soon. (Please email me. I have big news. ;o) Elaine
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